Olivia Wilde is not too pleased the MPA cut down a Don’t Worry Darling trailer scene starring female pleasure

Wilde says she "was upset" that the ratings board didn't allow more oral sex in Don't Worry Darling's first trailer

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Olivia Wilde is not too pleased the MPA cut down a Don’t Worry Darling trailer scene starring female pleasure
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(To the tune of Pete Seeger): Where have all the female orgasms gone? It’s a question Olivia Wilde seems dead set on interrogating with her new Don’t Worry Darling, a ‘60s-style mind-bender with an Iceberg Problem of behind-the-scenes drama. Wilde’s dedication to the film has been stalwart—she has said she took an onscreen role in the film because production “basically ran out of money” and needed someone who could both work for cheap and in line with the film’s ethos (unlike a certain actor, reportedly).

But Wilde’s pleasure-first feminist vision for the project wasn’t necessarily shared in full by the Motion Pictures Association. In a new interview with the Associated Press, Wilde has a clear answer when asked if she struggled to get that dining room oral sex scene in the teaser: “Oh, yeah.”

“There’s a lot that had to be taken out of the trailer,” Wilde tells AP. “The MPA came down hard on me and the trailer at the last second and I had to cut some shots, which I was upset about because I thought they it took it up another notch. But of course we still live in a really puritanical society.”

Wilde has spoken out previously about her frustration with the lack of divine feminine present in modern media depictions of sexuality. The way Wilde sees it: queer films are historically the ones who’ve gotten it consistently right.

“I do think the lack of eroticism in American film is kind of new. Then when it comes to female pleasure, it’s something that we just don’t see very often unless you’re talking about queer cinema,” she shares. “You know, it’s interesting because in a lot of queer films, the female characters are allowed to have more pleasure. Audiences aren’t as puritanical as corporations think they are. And yet people get upset.”

But Wilde digresses. “I mean, people are upset with me already over this. I think it’s a testament to the film,” she concludes. “We want to be provocative. The idea is not to make you feel safe.”

Don’t Worry Darling hits theaters on September 23.

59 Comments

  • jrcorwin-av says:

    She really is cashing in all of her goodwill chips on this one fucking movie. There is no chance I am watching it now. She has made even the idea of it truly exhausting. I’m one of those snobs that considers film art and filmmakers artists, but even I am choking back the vomit over just how precious Olivia thinks both she and this film are. Hell, I’m even reaching a point where I wish/hope Jason Sudeikis HAD intentionally had her served in public like that. Thank god he got out when he did. She’s one vagina scented candle away from reaching Gwyneth Paltrow levels of annoyance. 

  • bobwworfington-av says:

    Someday, there will be a day without a story on this movie.

    Today is not that day.

  • docnemenn-av says:

    Oh fine, you win Don’t Worry Darling people, I’ll buy a ticket just to shut you up.(Seriously, I’ve nothing against female sexuality in cinema, but I for one am so fucking sick of hearing about all the bullshit going on regarding this movie.)

    • lmh325-av says:

      I am firmly Team Flo where she was like “I really wish this awesome movie wouldn’t be reduced down to having steamy sex scenes.”

    • bobwworfington-av says:

      Stay strong. Do not give in. Watch this like it was intended to be watched.

      On Celebrity Movie Archive, to see the sex scenes. 

  • gargsy-av says:

    oh my god who gives a shit

  • ghboyette-av says:

    I know how she feels

  • lmh325-av says:

    She wanted more oral sex so that we wouldn’t feel safe? If she doesn’t feel safe during oral sex, Harry is doing it wrong.

    • kinjacaffeinespider-av says:
    • bobwworfington-av says:

      Well, now you’ve set tongues wagging…

    • planehugger1-av says:

      Also, it’s kind of silly to insist that people feel uncomfortable . . . in a trailer . . . that is shown to people regardless of whether that’s something they want or not.  Trailers are shown during breaks in random, unrelated television shows, and often before wildly dissimilar movies.  I largely share Wilde’s attitude about depictions of sexuality in the movies themselves, but I don’t think I get to insist that the general public share my comfort level, and neither does Wilde.

  • voidvisitor-av says:

    Can this movie just come out already so it can flop and then i never have to hear about it again

  • kman3k-av says:

    I’m sorry, what? She’s “mad” that the TRAILER didn’t have pr was allowed to have more oral sex? It’s a fucking trailer.I’m so over this dimwit.

  • teageegeepea-av says:

    Was “reportedly” above supposed to link to this?:https://www.avclub.com/shia-labeouf-claims-not-fired-from-dont-worry-darling-1849461353I find it odd that even after Florence Pugh complained about the focus being on the sex scenes rather than the film as a whole, Wilde is still going on about them.

  • saucepan-av says:

    Everything about this movie has looked pretty good up until recently. I feel like the push to keep it in the headlines is WB’s marketing department’s damage control because it’s not very good. I hope I’m wrong. 

  • drdelicatetouch3384-av says:

    Is Olivia Wilde trying to be insufferable? Do people actually like her? 

  • peterbjorkjohnandcurt-av says:

    Like many male directors, Olivia Wilde has made me want to see her movie less and less with each passing comment and story about the production.  

  • laserfacelvr-av says:

    And I’m SURE this isn’t a manufactured PR move to make people forget that she got owned last week. 

  • gr00l-av says:

    Dear Social Media, Nobody gives a flying fuck about Olivia Wilde.Thanks.

    • drdelicatetouch3384-av says:

      Dear grooL, YOU FUCKING MISOGYNIST! NO ONE WOULD GIVE A MAN THIS MUCH SHIT! Love, Social Media Like this letter? Don’t forget to subscribe!

  • kim-porter-av says:

    Because of all of the many blowjob and male masturbation scenes in film trailers?There’s this assumption that just because you end things with “we’re still in the patriarchy” or something similar, you retroactively get credit for making a good point. Like when Sydney Sweeney said that actresses who do nude scenes don’t get acclaim for those performances, ignoring roughly 200 thousand examples where the opposite occurred.

    • bobwworfington-av says:

      Wut? I missed that. Did she not remember Halle Berry, Kate Winslet, Jodie Foster, Charlize Theron, Hillary Swank, Holly Hunter, Marlee Martin and probably others who won Best Actress for roles where they were nude. 

      • gotpma-av says:

        Sweeney is young, why give a fuck about those who came before you when you can be self righteous and wrong. 

      • kim-porter-av says:

        Many of them before she was even born. I’m not trying to single her out or anything, but more the people who feel the need to nod along patronizingly without pushback.

    • frommyhotel-av says:

      Never a good sign when the director is talking more about the cultural significance of the movie than the movie itself.  

    • theotherglorbgorb-av says:

      No kidding. Plus just put it in a red band trailer anyway. More people will watch it.

    • vw0-av says:

      Wilde out here acting like there’s never been a movie where a guy (or gal) goes down on a woman. Unless it’s like a single shot 25-minute oral sex scene, she ain’t doing any thing special.It only took two movies for her to get lost up her own ass as a director.

  • minsk-if-you-wanna-go-all-the-way-back-av says:

    a ‘60s-style mind-bender*’60s

  • nilus-av says:

    FUCK THIS MOVIE!!!Seriously the trailer I saw looked interesting but all this fucking press conference that seems to boil down to Olivia Wilde being pissed about everything just makes me want to see this less and less.   

  • xdmgx-av says:

    I’d really like to know why Olivia Wilde, champion feminist, isn’t getting crushed for begging a Shia LeBeouf back to her movie. She told a massive lie about it and should be getting completely destroyed.

  • slbronkowitzpresents-av says:

    Not enough? When I watched the first trailer weeks back with my wife, I turned to her and said “This is the pussy-lickin’-est trailer I think I’ve ever seen.”

  • forkish-av says:

    We’re talking about a trailer, you understand me, a trailer. Not the movie,
    not the movie. Not the movie you go out there and die for, right? Play every
    weekend like it’s your last, right? No, we’re talking about a trailer,
    man. A trailer!

  • localmanruinseverything-av says:

    It’s hard to believe that a lot had to be taken out of the trailer, since it really feels like we are seeing every beat of the movie (I will be pleasantly shocked if all those cars speeding across the desert to stop Florence Pugh from looking into the mountain top room is not the climax of the movie).  

  • laurenceq-av says:

    The MPA also cut down their own name.  It’s kinda their thing.

  • crocodilegandhi-av says:

    “Audiences aren’t as puritanical as corporations think they are.”Superfriends announcer: “Meanwhile, on Twitter…”

  • blarpppp-av says:

    Every time Olivia Wilde publically whores for attention her eyes drift slightly further apart.

    • drdelicatetouch3384-av says:

      Revealing the cyborg within? Maybe her weak body couldn’t handle the viruses of the 21st century. 

  • stevennorwood-av says:

    I’ll be happy when this film comes out and we can all just ignore it, like we probably would have without all the weekly pre-release coverage.

  • seven-deuce-av says:

    Manufactured controversy is fun.

  • fj12001992-av says:

    I’d like to see a trailer with nothing but oral sex.  

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